Living Together Agreements

In the excitement of a new relationship, it's difficult to picture a time when you may need to deal with disagreements. But it can pay to plan ahead.

For many couples that come to us, putting in place a cohabitation, pre-nuptial or separation agreement gives them priceless peace of mind for the future. Read more about these specific agreements below or contact us to talk through your needs.

Cohabitation Agreements

With more and more people choosing to live together rather than marry, cohabiting couples are the fastest growing family unit in the UK. A cohabitation agreement is a way to legally confirm aspects of your relationship – such as who owns what.

Many couples believe that a ‘common law marriage’ gives them the same rights as married couples. However, cohabitation actually comes with its own set of legal issues. Read more about this in the FAQs below.

Prenuptial Agreements

A prenuptial agreement (often called a ‘prenup’) is a formal written agreement that a couple makes before they get married. It can set out how they will organise their finances during the marriage – as well as what they wish to happen should they separate or divorce.

Read more about how prenups work and when they should be set up in the FAQs below.

Separation Agreements

A couple that intends to stop living together can draw up a separation agreement. This is a useful way of clarifying financial and family arrangements and responsibilities, such as who will live where and who will pay which bills. If you then decide to divorce, a separation agreement can speed up the process and help avoid the need for the courts to get involved.

Read more about separation agreements in the FAQs below.

FAQs

Cohabitation Agreement FAQs

Do ‘common law marriages’ exist?
In reality, ‘common law marriage’ doesn’t exist, and cohabiting couples do not have the same legal rights and protections as those in a marriage or civil partnership. This means that disputes between couples who live together which do reach the courts are often drawn out. Arguments can then be expensive where there’s little evidence to support either side’s position.

What’s the purpose of a cohabitation agreement?
A cohabitation agreement provides evidence of the intention (or not) of couples to share assets and expenses – with the goal of avoiding going to court over future disagreements. Such an agreement can record details such as:

  • who owns what in the relationship
  • who will pay the mortgage and other household expenses
  • what should happen to financial assets and property if you separate.

A cohabitation agreement can also be used to record you and your partner’s intentions regarding property or other assets you buy together after the agreement is made.

How can a cohabitation agreement be made legally binding?
Anyone wishing to set up a cohabitation agreement should first take independent legal advice, and make sure full and frank disclosure of financial circumstances has been made to each other. These steps will help to avoid accusations that one party has been forced to sign a cohabitation agreement and / or didn’t know and understand the context within which it was made. It’s advisable too to include certificates signed by each solicitor to show each party has been advised about the effect of the agreement.

Prenuptial Agreement FAQs

Are prenups enforceable in England & Wales?
For a long time, the courts didn’t recognise prenups as enforceable. This changed in 2010, when a landmark court case, Ms Radmacher v Mr Granatino, led to the Supreme Court changing how prenups are treated. Following that decision, the Supreme Court justices have concluded that prenups can have decisive weight in the right cases.

This means it’s now established practice to give effect to prenuptial agreements – unless other circumstances indicate it wouldn’t be fair to hold the couple to this agreement. For example, it could be that their circumstances have changed in a way they could not have been envisaged when the agreement was drawn up. The longer a marriage has lasted, the more likely it is that this will be the case.

Who might benefit from a prenup?
At Sharp Family Law, our aim with prenups is to limit the negative impact that marital disputes may have on a family. For example, they may be particularly useful for families who wish to pass wealth down the generations and ring-fence their inheritance gifts.

Prenups can also be highly appropriate for second marriages. We often see clients who are thinking about marrying for a second time, anxious not to repeat the trauma of divorce and financial separations. By entering into a prenuptial agreement, they may be able to protect their future financial wellbeing, as well as their children’s inheritance.

When should you enter into a prenup?
You must take care not to leave preparing a prenuptial agreement to the last minute. Couples should make sure they receive independent legal advice in good time before the wedding. If it’s left too late, one side could argue they entered the agreement under emotional pressure.

Doesn’t a prenuptial agreement take the romance out of marriage?
Many people are still sceptical of prenuptial agreements, preferring to see marriage as an entirely romantic experience. And it’s true that prenups are not for everyone. However, for couples that do have an eye on the bigger picture – and wish to avoid prolonged conflict in the unhappy event their marriage should break down – prenups are something to consider.

Separation Agreement FAQs

What might be included in a separation agreement
As there are no hard and fast rules, it is up to a couple to decide what they want the agreement to record. Examples include:

  • who will live where
  • who will take immediate ownership of certain assets or will they be divided later and if so how and when
  • what level of financial support (maintenance) will be provided to one or other and for how long
  • what level of financial support (maintenance) will be provided for any children of the relationship
  • who children should live and spend time with
  • when will a divorce take place and how will it be funded

The benefits of a separation agreement
One of the main advantages a written agreement is it’s easier for you both to be sure you understand what you’ve agreed. Thus it can help to keep a separation as constructive as possible in the circumstances. A Court is likely to uphold the terms of a Separation Agreement where both parties have provided to each other full and frank disclosure of their financial circumstances and they have each had independent legal advice of the terms and there has been no subsequent significant changes.

The limitations of a separation agreement
Separation agreements cannot achieve the same degree of finality as a court order as they cannot bring financial claims on divorce to an end. Only an order in divorce proceedings (a ‘Consent Order’) can do this. Either partner can still go to court to change the agreement. This is why it’s so important to have a separation agreement drawn up professionally, as any ambiguous or confusing wording could make it more likely that conflict will arise in future

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