It may or may not have been your decision to separate, divorce or end a relationship, but the decisions you make on the process you choose for your divorce can impact you for the rest of your life.
The aim of Sharp Family Law is to help you to make those decisions by:
- Giving you a clear, step-by-step guide to the legal processes of separation and divorce, from understanding that a separation or divorce is both a business transaction and a time of deep emotional turmoil, to considering all the options for divorce and moving through them and on with the rest of your life.
- Helping you understand what issues the law can and cannot help you resolve, the legal pitfalls to avoid, and the legal and other strategies that can guide you toward resolution.
- Working with you on what is the big picture, what is most important, what needs to be accomplished, to determining who will do what in order to minimising the financial and emotional expense and experience.
The end of a personal relationship can be the beginning of traumatic and unfamiliar emotional feelings, family disruptions, financial changes and legal processes.
At Sharp Family Law, our skilled negotiators focus on helping you to work through and settle issues wherever possible out of court. However, if your situation requires court intervention, we are prepared, experienced and strategic Litigators.
Skilled negotiation enables separating and divorcing couples to reach agreements through a constructive, solution-focused approach that is centred on your most important goals for the future.
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Experienced Collaborative lawyers help separating and divorcing couples to reach a resolution respectfully, in private and without the threat of court action.
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With the aid of a neutral professional mediator, separating and divorcing couples can reach mutual decisions on their issues without court intervention.
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Family lawyers experienced in court litigation represent clients in court through strategic litigation. We are skilled litigators who never lose sight on the importance of a constructive and sensible, cost proportionate approach to achieving the best possible outcome for our clients.
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Expert guidance is available for divorcing and separating couples who are keen to handle matters themselves with the support of a lawyer. The client and the lawyer can agree to limit the scope of services that the lawyer provides
However your issues are handled we will help you focus on what matters most so you can achieve the best possible outcome for you and your family.
Contact us to arrange a time to talk through which option might be right for you and your partner
“I have very much appreciated your help with what could have been a far more stressful phase in my and my ex’s lives. I have emerged in as good a state of mind as I could have hoped for; My ex is comfortable and is well provided-for and I have sufficient to ensure the final years of my working life and my retirement will be financially secure, both boys are happily going their very individual ways and are secure in the fact that their parents’ divorce has been handled considerately and to the best ends for both parties, and neither I nor my ex have incurred any more legal costs than necessary to complete the process.”
“Reassurance and realisation that what I am going through is a process and I am not being judged for my actions.”
“You gave me a very clear explanation about the steps in the divorce process with a possible time-line.”
“It is a relief that the process is now over. Thank you very much for helping me get through it. I feel very happy that I chose you to deal with it for me.”
“I am deeply grateful to you for your professionalism and expertise, and the considerate way that you conducted my divorce process.”
“I found the meeting yesterday very useful. You made me feel very relaxed and I know I am now in the best of hands with the process I am about to go through.”
“I should like to take this opportunity to thank you for representing me during my recent divorce; it is not an experience that I would like to repeat, but thanks to your help and professionalism, I am now in a position to see the light at the end of the tunnel.”
Divorce procedure guide
Whilst the particulars of the divorce process will vary from case to case, the flow chart in the pdf provides a good guide to the current divorce procedure in England and Wales,
- Divorce Aid: An independent group of professionals who provide divorce advice, support and information on any family matter that might concern you. The website contains in-depth legal, financial, practical and emotional information and links to sources of support.
- Advice Guide: Online Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) service that gives you information on your Rights in the UK.
- Benefit Enquiry Line: Website provides general information and advice on welfare benefits and how to claim them
- Relate: Offers advice, relationship counselling, sex therapy, workshops, mediation, consultations and support face-to-face, by phone and through their website
- Women’s Aid: the national domestic violence charity offering support for women who suffer domestic violence. Helpline number, campaigns, news, events and job vacancies
- Civil Legal Aid: You might be able to get free and confidential advice from Civil Legal Advice
- “Dinosaurs Divorce”: by Laurie Krasny Brown & Marc Brown
- “Jack”: by Helen Victoria Bishop
- “Which: Divorce and Splitting Up – A complete Legal & Financial Guide”: by Imogen Clout
- “The Good Divorce – Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart”: by Constance Ahrons, Ph.D
- “The Collaborative Way to Divorce: The Revolutionary Method That Results in Less Stress, Lower Costs, and Happier Kids — Without Going to Court”: by Stuart G. Webb & Ron Ousky
- “Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on with your Life”: By Pauline Tesler & Peggy Thompson
- “Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life, Revised Edition (Paperback)”: By Abigail Trafford
- “The Smart Divorce”:: by Deborah Moskovitch
- “Divorce – A Problem to be Solved, Not a Battle to be Fought”: By Karen Fagerstrom, Ph.D